If you intend sharing your views and information with others on OlderFlames please remember that there is always the slight chance that someone reading your words might not be as honest and trustworthy as you.

So be careful what you say; do not give too much information.

We at OlderFlames consider your interests as our interests.

That is why we have formally advised the Metropolitan Police of this service so that they know who is saying what to whom at all times.

The care we have taken means:

- Only Usernames are published. We will not accept full names.
- Only e-mail and/or Post Office Box numbers are published. We will not accept home or work addresses.
- We do not publish telephone numbers.

Our advice to all our users is simple:

In any subsequent contacts you have with other users do not easily or too readily provide too much personal detail.

If you have any doubts or queries please do not hesitate to contact us, or the police, or any other reputable advice bureau.